
Latest Blogs
In these articles, I explore common questions and challenges faced by women healing from domestic abuse, family violence, and trauma. I hope they will provide you with valuable insights and support. If you feel affected by any of the issues discussed, please don't hesitate to reach out for a compassionate consultation.
Are You Too Sensitive? Why You Often Feel ‘Too Much’
Have you been told you're too emotional or that you overthink everything? This blog explores how emotional sensitivity often forms through trauma and how to reframe it as a strength, while learning to support your nervous system with compassion.
When Co-Parenting Becomes Impossible. Understanding Post-Separation Abuse
What if "healthy co-parenting" isn’t possible? This blog explores post-separation abuse, a hidden dynamic where parenting is weaponised. A trauma-informed guide to staying safe and protecting your children.
The Cost of Always Being the 'Strong One': Trauma and Hyper-Independence
Sometimes the strength we’re proud of hides a deeper struggle. This blog explores how trauma can lead to hyper-independence, a survival strategy that leaves us isolated and exhausted, and how healing begins when we allow ourselves to receive support. If you’ve always been the “strong one,” this gentle invitation to connection might be just what you need.
Parallel Parenting After Abuse: What It Is and Why It Matters
Co-parenting assumes both parents are safe and respectful, but what if that’s not your reality? This post explores the difficult truth of post-separation abuse and introduces parallel parenting as a safer path for children and survivors.
Why You Miss Them (Even Though They Hurt You): Understanding Trauma Bonds
Explore why trauma bonds keep you emotionally attached to those who hurt you and how to start healing. Includes signs, recovery steps, and a free reflection guide.
When Emotions Run High: Emotional Immaturity in Action
Do you often feel blamed or confused after naming a need or setting a boundary? This post unpacks what emotional immaturity looks like in everyday moments and how to protect your peace.
What Is Parentification? Understanding Childhood Role Reversal
Parentification is a hidden form of childhood role reversal that can lead to deep emotional wounds. This blog explores what it is, how it happens, and what healing can look like in adulthood.
Writing a Letter to an Estranged Family Member
Writing to someone you’re estranged from can be powerful, but also risky. Here are five reflective steps to help you decide if, when, and how to write a letter.















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