Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
Why Complicated Grief Hurts Long After the Loss is Over
Some losses never fully resolve, especially when love and pain were intertwined. This post explores complicated grief after abuse or estrangement, and gentle ways healing can begin.
When Being Around Family Feels Triggering
Being around family can bring up anxiety, old roles, and unexpected emotional reactions. Learn why your body responds this way and how to stay grounded and protected.
When Estrangement Feels Like Grief
Estrangement can feel like a quiet, invisible loss, a relationship that’s still alive yet irretrievably changed. This post explores why the grief of estrangement can run deep and how you might begin to make sense of it.
When Father's Day Hurts: Grief, Estrangement, and the Complexity of Missing Someone Who Harmed You
Father’s Day can stir grief, anger, or longing when a father was absent, unsafe, or lost. This piece offers gentle ways to navigate triggers and honour your healing.
Writing a Letter to an Estranged Family Member
Writing to someone you’re estranged from can be both powerful and painful. Before reaching out, it can help to pause and reflect. These five steps support you in deciding if, when, and how to make contact in a way that honours your safety, boundaries, and emotional wellbeing.
When Your Aging Parent Is Still a Narcissist: Guilt, Exhaustion and Survival
Caring for an aging parent with strong narcissistic traits can bring intense guilt, exhaustion, and impossible choices. This article explores why narcissistic dynamics often intensify with age and how adult children are left caught between duty and self-preservation.
Finding Peace After an Abuser's Death
Experiencing relief, guilt, anger or numbness after an abuser’s death is common. This article explores the complex emotions survivors may feel and why they are valid.
When People You Trust Become Weapons - Understanding Flying Monkeys
If you’ve ever wondered why people you trust defend or enable someone who’s hurt you, this article explores the role of “flying monkeys” in narcissistic abuse and how their involvement can leave you feeling confused, isolated, and doubting yourself.
Tag Cloud
- attachment wounds
- Coercive Control
- Emotional Abuse
- Boundaries
- nervous system
- trauma bonding
- Gaslighting
- Nervous System Regulation
- Shame
- Trauma Recovery
- trauma responses
- Emotional regulation
- Self-worth
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- emotional abuse
- relational trauma
- trauma recovery
- Hypervigilance
- attachment trauma
- Childhood trauma
- emotional safety
- Emotional Neglect
- trauma bonds
- People-pleasing
- family estrangement
- relationship dynamics
- anxious attachment
- Domestic Violence
- avoidant attachment
- Relationship Patterns