Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
Gaslighting or Miscommunication? How to Tell the Difference
Have you ever left a conversation wondering if you misunderstood or if your reality was quietly rewritten? This post explores the difference between gaslighting and genuine miscommunication, and why the distinction matters for your safety and self-trust.
When Your Aging Parent Is Still a Narcissist: Guilt, Exhaustion and Survival
Caring for an aging parent with strong narcissistic traits can bring intense guilt, exhaustion, and impossible choices. This article explores why narcissistic dynamics often intensify with age and how adult children are left caught between duty and self-preservation.
Finding Peace - Managing Emotions After Your Abuser’s Death
Grieving an abuser often brings painful contradictions: sadness, relief, guilt, and sometimes an unexpected sense of peace. This article explores how mixed emotions can emerge after an abuser’s death, and how to navigate them without shame or pressure to grieve in a particular way.
Stalking Isn’t Love
Stalking often disguises itself as romance. This article explores how boundary violations erode safety, the warning signs of stalking, and what support and protection can look like.
When People You Trust Become Weapons - Understanding Flying Monkeys
If you’ve ever wondered why people you trust defend or enable someone who’s hurt you, this article explores the role of “flying monkeys” in narcissistic abuse and how their involvement can leave you feeling confused, isolated, and doubting yourself.
The Lies We Tell Ourselves to Stay: When Self-Deception Becomes Survival
The lies we tell ourselves in relationships aren’t failures, they’re survival strategies. This trauma-informed guide helps you understand what they protect and how to gently move toward truth.
Understanding Coercive Control, When Control Doesn’t Look Like Violence
Coercive control doesn’t always look like violence.
It shows up as shrinking, self-doubt, isolation, and fear. This piece explores how subtle patterns erode your freedom and how your body often recognises what’s happening long before your mind can name it.
When Money Becomes Control: Recognising Financial Abuse
Financial and emotional abuse often intertwine, leaving survivors feeling isolated, uncertain, and trapped. This blog helps you recognise the signs of financial abuse, understand its impact, and explore practical steps toward reclaiming your independence.
When Your Relationship Becomes the Source of Stress. Protecting Your Mental Health
Is your relationship adding stress to your life? Discover signs that your partnership might be affecting your well-being and learn how to navigate emotional challenges.
Tag Cloud
- attachment wounds
- Boundaries
- Emotional Abuse
- Coercive Control
- Nervous System Regulation
- nervous system
- trauma bonding
- Gaslighting
- Shame
- Trauma Recovery
- trauma responses
- Self-worth
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- Emotional regulation
- emotional safety
- emotional abuse
- Childhood trauma
- Hypervigilance
- relational trauma
- attachment trauma
- relationship dynamics
- anxious attachment
- Emotional Neglect
- People-pleasing
- trauma healing
- inner child
- avoidant attachment
- Rebuilding Trust
- trauma recovery
- Relationship Patterns