Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
Complicated Grief. When Loss Keeps Hurting Long After It's Over
Some losses never fully resolve, especially when love and pain were intertwined. This post explores complicated grief after abuse or estrangement and gentle ways to begin healing.
When Being Around Family Feels Triggering or What Your Body Knows
Being around family can bring up anxiety, old roles, and unexpected emotional reactions. Learn why your body responds this way and how to stay grounded and protected.
When Estrangement Feels Like Grief
Estrangement is a hidden kind of grief; the person is alive, yet the relationship feels lost. This post explores why it hurts so deeply, why it’s often unseen, and how to move forward with compassion and hope.
When Father's Day Hurts: Grief, Estrangement, and the Complexity of Missing Someone Who Harmed You
Father’s Day can stir grief, anger, or longing when a father was absent, unsafe, or lost. This piece offers gentle ways to navigate triggers and honour your healing.
Writing a Letter to an Estranged Family Member
Writing to someone you’re estranged from can be both powerful and painful. Before reaching out, it can help to pause and reflect. These five steps are designed to support you in deciding if, when, and how to make contact in a way that honours your safety, your boundaries, and your emotional wellbeing.
Finding Peace - Managing Emotions After Your Abuser’s Death
Grieving an abuser often brings painful contradictions: sadness, relief, guilt, and sometimes an unexpected sense of peace. This article explores how mixed emotions can emerge after an abuser’s death, and how to navigate them without shame or pressure to grieve in a particular way.
Parents Estranged from Adult Children
When your adult child pulls away, the grief can feel invisible. This article explores the pain of parental estrangement and offers gentle ways to find peace and understanding.
Tag Cloud
- attachment wounds
- Boundaries
- Emotional Abuse
- Coercive Control
- Nervous System Regulation
- nervous system
- trauma bonding
- Gaslighting
- Shame
- Trauma Recovery
- trauma responses
- Self-worth
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- Emotional regulation
- emotional safety
- emotional abuse
- Childhood trauma
- Hypervigilance
- relational trauma
- attachment trauma
- relationship dynamics
- anxious attachment
- Emotional Neglect
- People-pleasing
- trauma healing
- inner child
- avoidant attachment
- Rebuilding Trust
- trauma recovery
- Relationship Patterns