You’re not overreacting; your nervous system is responding to a threat.
When trauma pushes your body outside its window of tolerance, logic and willpower stop working. This article explains why “just calming down” isn’t possible when you’re dysregulated, and how nervous system–informed healing actually helps.

Your attachment style isn’t a flaw; it’s a survival response shaped by your early environment. This guide explores how these patterns form, how they affect relationships, and how healing is possible through trauma-informed, nervous-system-focused work.

When life feels like constant overdrive or shutdown, your body may have forgotten what safety feels like. This article explores how trauma shapes the nervous system and how “glimmers”, small cues of safety, can help you move out of survival mode. With gentle, practical strategies, learn how to recognise your states and find your way back to calm, connection, and balance.

Being around family can bring up anxiety, old roles, and unexpected emotional reactions. Learn why your body responds this way and how to stay grounded and protected.

Father’s Day can stir grief, anger, or longing when a father was absent, unsafe, or lost. This piece offers gentle ways to navigate triggers and honour your healing.

Why do the same stressors feel manageable one day and overwhelming the next? Your nervous system holds the answer. Explore the window of tolerance and gentle ways to return to safety and regulation.

Online and in-room therapy offer different forms of safety, grounding, and connection. Learn how to choose the setting where your nervous system feels most supported.

Anxiety often feels like it comes out of nowhere, but your body is responding to old patterns of danger. This post explains why and offers grounded, compassionate tools to help you steady your nervous system.

Traumatic memories can surface suddenly, leaving you feeling flooded or numb. This post explores why that happens and offers gentle, practical tools to help you stay present and begin healing.