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Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries, and emotional safety.
These articles offer understanding and support for women navigating the effects of trauma, family violence, and relational wounds. If something here resonates with you, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate consultation.
Mother Wounds: How Emotional Neglect Shapes Women
The mother-daughter relationship shapes our first sense of love and safety. When it’s marked by neglect, criticism, or absence, it can leave deep “mother wounds” that echo into adulthood as self-doubt and shame. This post explores how those wounds show up and offers compassionate ways to heal and reclaim your voice.
Parallel Parenting After Abuse: What It Is and Why It Matters
Co-parenting only works when both parents are safe and respectful. For survivors of abuse, that isn’t always possible. This post explores post-separation abuse and how parallel parenting can protect both children and your peace.
What Is Parentification? Understanding Childhood Role Reversal
Parentification is a hidden form of childhood role reversal that leaves lasting emotional wounds. This post explores how it happens, how it shapes adult relationships, and gentle ways to begin healing.
Emotionally Immature Parents: Their Impact and Breaking the Cycle
Do you often feel like the parent in your relationship with your parents? This post explores the traits of emotionally immature parents, how they affect your self-worth and relationships, and gentle ways to heal and move forward.
Why Do They Stay: The Complex Reality of Leaving Abuse
Leaving an abusive relationship isn’t easy. Trauma bonds, fear, and emotional exhaustion can make breaking free feel impossible. This post explores why survivors stay and how healing and support can help them reclaim their lives.
“It Felt Like Love. It Was Control”. A Story of Emotional Abuse
Emotional abuse often hides behind gestures of love, concern, and care. In Ella’s story, we see how control slowly takes hold and how recovery begins with recognising it.
The Truth About Mutual Abuse
There is a misunderstanding that needs to be addressed - the concept of 'mutual abuse' in relationships is not accurate and can harm those involved. Almost always, there will be a primary aggressor and primary victim.
When does relationship conflict become abuse?
It's easy to mix up conflict and abuse, but it's important to understand that while healthy disagreements can foster growth in a relationship, abuse is never acceptable and involves one person harming or excerting control over another.
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