Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
You’re Not Imagining It, How Emotional Abuse Shows Up and How to Trust Yourself Again
Emotional abuse is often subtle, slow, and easy to minimise, especially when you still care about the person hurting you. If you’ve been doubting your memory, questioning your reactions, or wondering whether something feels “off,” this guide helps you recognise the signs, understand the impact on your nervous system, and begin trusting yourself again.
What Is Trauma-Informed Therapy? A Guide to Healing at Your Own Pace
Trauma-informed therapy recognises that healing starts with safety, not pressure. This approach helps you understand how trauma affects your mind and body, and supports recovery at your own pace. Learn what to expect from compassionate, trauma-informed counselling in Melbourne, online or in person.
When Being Around Family Feels Triggering or What Your Body Knows
Being around family can bring up anxiety, old roles, and unexpected emotional reactions. Learn why your body responds this way and how to stay grounded and protected.
When Co-Parenting Becomes Impossible. Understanding Post-Separation Abuse
What if healthy co-parenting isn’t possible? This post explores post-separation abuse, when parenting becomes a tool of control, and offers trauma-informed strategies to help you stay safe and protect your children.
The Cost of Always Being the 'Strong One': Trauma and Hyper-Independence
When strength becomes armour, it hides exhaustion, loneliness, and the shame of never feeling allowed to need anyone. This post explores the hidden cost of always being the ‘strong one’ and how to soften without losing yourself.
When Emotions Run High: Emotional Immaturity in Action
Do you often feel blamed, dismissed, or confused after expressing a need or setting a boundary? This post explores what emotional immaturity looks like in everyday interactions and offers grounded ways to protect your peace.
Writing a Letter to an Estranged Family Member: A Trauma-Informed Guide
Writing to someone you’re estranged from can be both powerful and painful. Before reaching out, it can help to pause and reflect. These five steps are designed to support you in deciding if, when, and how to make contact in a way that honours your safety, your boundaries, and your emotional wellbeing.
Navigating Relationships with Aging Narcissists
As people with strong narcissistic traits age, their need for control often intensifies, leaving loved ones walking on eggshells. Learn how to protect your well-being, set boundaries, and navigate the emotional fallout with clarity and care.
Your Abusive Ex Is Dating Again. Should You Say Something?
When your abusive ex enters a new relationship, it can stir up fear, guilt, and moral questions. This article explores how to protect others without risking your own safety.
Tag Cloud
- Boundaries
- attachment wounds
- Emotional Abuse
- nervous system
- Gaslighting
- Trauma Recovery
- Shame
- Nervous System Regulation
- trauma bonding
- trauma responses
- Coercive Control
- Self-worth
- Emotional regulation
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- Trauma-informed therapy Melbourne
- Counselling Melbourne
- Childhood trauma
- Hypervigilance
- emotional safety
- trauma healing
- inner child
- relationship dynamics
- People-pleasing
- Rebuilding Trust
- anxious attachment
- Emotional Neglect
- avoidant attachment
- Emotional Manipulation
- codependency
- trauma recovery