Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
Breaking the Chains: Understanding Coercive Control
Coercive control doesn’t begin with bruises; it begins with self-doubt. This trauma-informed guide helps you recognise the signs, understand why it’s so hard to leave, and begin reclaiming your sense of self.
Why Loving a Narcissist Feels So Lonely (And How to Reclaim Yourself)
Being in a toxic relationship can leave you feeling drained, isolated, and unseen. Emotional abuse and manipulation quietly breed loneliness that’s hard to name and even harder to escape.
When Love Feels Scary
Relationship anxiety is often mistaken for falling out of love, but they’re not the same. Anxiety usually comes from fear and nervous-system activation, while falling out of love tends to involve emotional withdrawal or disconnection.
When People You Trust Become Weapons - Understanding Flying Monkeys
If you’ve ever wondered why people you trust defend or enable someone who’s hurt you, this article explores the role of “flying monkeys” in narcissistic abuse and how their involvement can leave you feeling confused, isolated, and doubting yourself.
Why we accept the love we think we deserve
Healthy love can feel unsettling after abuse. When your nervous system has learned to associate chaos with connection, calm can feel foreign, even unsafe. This blog explores why kind, stable partners feel “boring” and how your body can relearn what real safety feels like.
Rebuilding Self-Esteem After Leaving a Toxic Relationship
Recovering from a toxic relationship includes recognising the pain, removing negative influences from your life, and finding happiness on your own. Toxic relationships can damage your self-esteem and sense of self, so it's important to practice self-love to heal and find yourself again after a breakup.
The Lies We Tell Ourselves to Stay: When Self-Deception Becomes Survival
The lies we tell ourselves in relationships aren’t failures, they’re survival strategies. This trauma-informed guide helps you understand what they protect and how to gently move toward truth.
Parents Estranged from Adult Children
When your adult child pulls away, the grief can feel invisible. This article explores the pain of parental estrangement and offers gentle ways to find peace and understanding.
Understanding Infidelity, Why It Happens and How Healing Really Works
Betrayal can shatter your sense of safety and make you question everything you thought was real. It’s natural to move between grief, rage, numbness, and confusion. There’s no “right” way to heal from infidelity, only your way.
Tag Cloud
- attachment wounds
- Boundaries
- Emotional Abuse
- Coercive Control
- Nervous System Regulation
- nervous system
- trauma bonding
- Gaslighting
- Shame
- Trauma Recovery
- trauma responses
- Self-worth
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- Emotional regulation
- emotional safety
- emotional abuse
- Childhood trauma
- Hypervigilance
- relational trauma
- attachment trauma
- relationship dynamics
- anxious attachment
- Emotional Neglect
- People-pleasing
- trauma healing
- inner child
- avoidant attachment
- Rebuilding Trust
- trauma recovery
- Relationship Patterns