Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
Why Is It So Hard to Leave a Toxic Relationship?
Leaving a toxic relationship isn’t about weakness, it’s about survival. This post explores why leaving can feel so hard, from trauma bonds and fear of change to the slow erosion of self-trust, and how healing begins.
Stonewalling or Why Silence Can Hurt More Than Words
When one partner shuts down, silence can feel more painful than conflict. This article explores stonewalling, why it happens, how it affects the nervous system and attachment, and what supports safety, repair, and reconnection.
Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Person (And Why That's Not Your Fault)
If you keep finding yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable or chaotic partners, it may not be a lack of insight or self-worth. Often, it’s your nervous system repeating what it learned about love long ago. Understanding this pattern can be the first step toward gentler, healthier connection.
Relationship Red Flags: When Love Feels Confusing
Discover key relationship red flags that can quietly erode your sense of safety and self-worth. From inconsistency and lack of accountability to emotional manipulation and control, this trauma-aware guide helps you recognise concerning patterns and listen to what your body is telling you.
Breadcrumbing: Why Mixed Signals Feel So Hooking Especially If You Have Attachment Wounds
Mixed signals in dating are more than frustrating, they can echo old attachment wounds. This trauma-informed guide unpacks why breadcrumbing feels so powerful and how to recognise when it’s pulling you into a familiar cycle of hope, confusion, and self-doubt.
How to Tell If They've Really Changed (Or If It's Just Another Promise)
How can you tell whether an abusive partner has genuinely changed or is simply making another promise? This article explores the cycle of abuse, empty apologies, and subtle manipulation tactics, offering clarity to help you prioritise your safety, self-trust, and wellbeing.
Toxic Shame in Relationships and How to Find Your Way Back to Yourself
Explore how shame affects those in emotionally abusive relationships. Learn about the cycle of shame, its impact, and steps toward healing and recovery.
Reclaiming Self-Worth After an Abusive Relationship
Toxic relationships can quietly erode your confidence and sense of self. This blog explores how abuse impacts self-esteem and how to rebuild your identity with compassion and support.
Trusting Your Instincts After Abuse
Dating after a difficult relationship can feel daunting. Fear of repeating old patterns, lowered self-trust, and emotional vulnerability often linger. This article explores how to rebuild trust in yourself first and why caution when trusting others can make sense after harm.
Tag Cloud
- attachment wounds
- Boundaries
- Emotional Abuse
- Coercive Control
- Nervous System Regulation
- nervous system
- trauma bonding
- Gaslighting
- Shame
- Trauma Recovery
- trauma responses
- Self-worth
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- Emotional regulation
- emotional safety
- emotional abuse
- Childhood trauma
- Hypervigilance
- relational trauma
- attachment trauma
- relationship dynamics
- anxious attachment
- Emotional Neglect
- People-pleasing
- trauma healing
- inner child
- avoidant attachment
- Rebuilding Trust
- trauma recovery
- Relationship Patterns