Healing & Relationships Blogs; Trauma-Informed Insights
Gentle, trauma-informed insights on healing, boundaries and emotional safety.
These articles explore the impact of trauma, family violence, estrangement and relational wounds, offering clarity and support for people rebuilding trust in themselves and their relationships. If something here resonates, you’re welcome to reach out for a compassionate, grounding consultation.
Understanding the Impact of Childhood Trauma
Childhood trauma can significantly impact emotional development, manifesting in various ways throughout life. Understanding the differences between 'Little T' and 'Big T' trauma is crucial in addressing these experiences, supporting healing, and fostering resilience.
Setting Healthy Boundaries: A Guide to Respectful Relationships
Struggling to say “no”? This trauma-informed guide explains why boundaries feel so hard, how childhood conditioning shapes your ability to set limits, and how to protect your energy without guilt. Learn how to create relationships where you feel respected, valued, and at peace.
When Feeling Empty Inside Makes You Question Your Worth
Emotional emptiness can feel like a quiet void, a disconnection from your own feelings and from others. This article explores why it develops and how therapy can gently support reconnection.
Life After Emotional Abuse, Why Healing Feels So Confusing
After an emotionally abusive relationship, many people are left questioning themselves rather than the harm they endured. This article explores the confusing aftermath of emotional abuse and the gradual process of healing, rebuilding self-trust, boundaries, and a sense of worth.
Rebuilding After Abuse: Steps to Finding Closure
Healing after a dysfunctional relationship is hard, but with self-compassion, therapy, and understanding the grief process, you can move toward closure and a healthier future.
Unmasking Legal Abuse: The Weaponisation of the Legal System
Legal abuse is a lesser-known but powerful tactic often used in domestic abuse situations. This happens when one partner exploits the legal system to exert control and inflict pain, even after the relationship has ended.
Hidden Wars of Post-Separation Abuse
After a breakup, abusers often use hidden tactics to maintain control and harm their ex-partner, including manipulating the legal system, children, and shared responsibilities.
The Truth About "Mutual Abuse". Why Your Reactions Don't Make You Abusive
Many people blame themselves for “mutual abuse,” but reactive responses aren’t the same as being abusive. Learn how trauma, power dynamics, and the nervous system shape your reactions and why your responses were survival, not cruelty.
When does relationship conflict become abuse?
Conflict is part of every relationship. But when disagreements leave you smaller, anxious, or doubting your own reality, something deeper may be happening. Here’s how to recognise the shift from conflict to abuse.
Tag Cloud
- attachment wounds
- Boundaries
- Emotional Abuse
- Coercive Control
- Nervous System Regulation
- nervous system
- trauma bonding
- Gaslighting
- Shame
- Trauma Recovery
- trauma responses
- Self-worth
- Trauma-Informed Therapy
- Emotional regulation
- emotional safety
- emotional abuse
- Childhood trauma
- Hypervigilance
- relational trauma
- attachment trauma
- relationship dynamics
- anxious attachment
- Emotional Neglect
- People-pleasing
- trauma healing
- inner child
- avoidant attachment
- Rebuilding Trust
- trauma recovery
- Relationship Patterns